The couple met on seventh season of Bravo's "Summer House," ending their relationship after the third season of "Winter House."
Sam Feher confirmed her breakup with “Summer House” co-star Kory Keefer after less than two years of dating.
On Tuesday’s episode of Amanda Hirsch’s “Not Skinny But Not Fat” podcast, Feher revealed that she ended the relationship a few days before Christmas. This comes after she fully processed Keefer’s actions during the latest season of “Winter House.”
During the podcast episode, she explicitly detailed why she broke up with Keefer:
“I think he’s great. I didn’t break up with him because I don’t love him. I broke up with him because he doesn’t love me, and that’s that,” Feher said.
Feher notes that she had told Keefer that she loved him, and he didn’t say it back. He never said it back for the rest of their relationship. At that point, it became clear that she needed to leave the relationship as it was a huge problem for her.
The split came after the couple didn’t communicate for two days after he didn’t respond to her text, which asked if he would be able to spend New Year’s with Feher’s family. The couple was in a long-distance relationship, which didn’t help things.
She ultimately called him and Keefer accused her of testing him and timing their texts. Feher notes that the gaslighting wasn’t what she needed in her life and further validated her feelings to end the relationship.
“We were talking and talking, and he was like, ‘What are you saying? Are you saying we should break up? And I was like, ‘Yeah.’ Silence,” Feher said of the remainder of the phone call.
Keefer was mature about the split, though he said that he wished things were different. This statement bothered Feher, noting: “Like, you can wish all you want, but if you would do anything to change how it was, then you can do the bare minimum.”
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The breakup comes on the heels of the latest season of Bravo’s “Winter House,” which Keefer starred in without Feher. During his time on the show, he didn’t put a label on the relationship and flirted with some of the women on the show. This later led to confrontation between Feher and one of the women as Feher made a guest appearance towards the end of the season.
On “Not Skinny But Not Fat,” Feher said Keefer downplayed the seriousness of their relationship to his “Winter House” co-stars. She claimed he told her he wouldn’t hook up with anyone on the show nor would he embarrass her. She wasn’t aware of many details until she watched the show along with everyone.
“He didn’t prepare me for anything I was gonna watch,” Feher said. “I didn’t know how disrespected I was at the time.”
Hours after Feher confirmed their breakup on Hirsch’s podcast, Keefer spoke with Page Six about the split.
“Sam and I connected on so many levels but I believe we just weren’t meant for each, and that’s the hardest truth to admit,” Keefer said.
He noted that Feher was a wonderful and loving woman and that he had nothing but nice things to say about her.
Despite their breakup, they remain on good terms as friends.
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